All children have a completely different temperament and character. Of course, all parents want their child to be patient, calm, assiduous.
There are some tips that will help change the character of the child for the better.
Attention
First of all, parents should understand that they will have to devote almost all of their time to the child from birth. Do not let the child’s hobbies go by itself. This will inevitably lead to the fact that he will have unworthy hobbies, dubious friends. In addition, the character's character deteriorates, he moves away from his parents, becomes secretive, nervous, aggressive. Usually restlessness in a child begins to manifest itself from a very early age.
Such a child stands out from the background of his peers: usually this is the most active child, who finds it difficult to do one thing for a long time. He quickly gets tired, loses interest in the subject, has a low concentration of attention. Of course, such a character will greatly affect the child's performance. It is important to start adjusting the character of the baby as early as possible. At preschool age, children are easier to educate than schoolchildren.
What to do?
First of all, you should start by trying to captivate the attention of the child as long as possible. The kid can be given bright toys and show how to play them. Older children can be encouraged to be creative.To help raise a child can modeling, drawing, embroidery. They have a calming effect on the child. If it is difficult for a child to pay attention to any occupation for a long time, then it is worth playing with him. It is important to arouse the child's interest in the lesson. Of great importance is discipline.
Do not let your child scatter toys after themselves. It is necessary to gently explain to the child that if he does not want to clean up after himself, then he should not begin to do anything. It is desirable that the child begins to do something consciously, knowing exactly what he has to do and what the result will be, and not following the example of other children or succumbing to a fleeting temptation. It is important for parents to explain to the child why they should not leave the case halfway. It is good if there is an opportunity to find a good example from real life, for example, to set an example of a more successful child.
We must not forget to praise the restless child for his successes and even the smallest achievements. It is important to talk a lot with the child while he is engaged in some important business. Let the kid tell what he is doing now and what he wants to achieve with his actions.
If the child is about to quit, it is important to motivate him to finish and to please himself and others with a good result. It is not necessary to force the child to do what he does not want, or to require him to sit still for several hours. Each child is individual and requires a careful approach.